Looking for love

So as the title says,im definitely looking to have an affair with someone. For some reason,the act of being unfaithful is such a turn on because it's exciting and dangerous.Being able to do bad things that you aren't supposed to be doing and getting away with it is very hot. i'm currently in a committed relationship,have a wife and not looking to change that.I'm looking for someone with similar status preffered,or someone that enjoyd being the mistress. In short am a kenyan man who's humble,understanding,respecting,loving,etc.So would like someone who is simple coz iam simple too.